Abstract
This short commentary which acts as a radical, vulnerable selfie, reflects on Millennial notions of manifestation, leaning in and Girlbossing. In doing so, this selfie critically engages with how these concepts have come to organise the female protagonist of our times. By applying principles of ‘writing differently’, readers are taken on a reflective, vulnerable journey. In doing so the contribution of this article is co-constructed: you are invited to reflect on your own toxic webs of organising and may indeed feel exhausted by the end. Insights are framed inside of contemporary cultural references, positioning this text as a hybrid of academic prose that sits outside of traditional academic writing.